Parents
How to support your student in the essay writing process.
“What do you think about this idea?”
If your child seeks your advice, use it as an opportunity to deepen the conversation. For example: “What impression do you think x topic will give an admissions officer?” Let them share with you.
Do your own brainstorming.
Reflect on the past two years. When has your child overcome obstacles, practiced good judgement, or taken responsibility? Make a list of their achievements (in and out of school!), quirks, daily routines, and strengths. Include anecdotes.
Rome wasn’t built in a day.
Make a schedule with attainable goals. Rarely is a strong essay written last minute. Start early and regularly. One hour every week starting in June can save a big headache when October rolls arounds, and the demands of senior year pile up.
“Your ideas suck!”
If your child tells you this, let it go. Your ideas might still be spurring their thought process in the background.
Do your own research.
Learn about the types of essays your child will have to write. See the resources page to read examples of what your student is aiming for.
Plant seeds, and don’t overwater.
Your child understands the weight that’s riding on these essays. You don’t need to make it heavier.